OVERCOMING THE DEFEAT.
My response to a conversation I had..
“Yes I understand, it is very hard to do.
Yes people may criticize you, will criticize you and may tell you that you have no talent, maybe they will laugh at you and maybe make fun of you.
Yes it is hard to go forward with that in the back of your mind.
Its called fear.
We tell ourselves best to do nothing, so then I won't fail.
We then tell ours selves that no body understands us, so that reinforces that we are alone and can do nothing.
Fear stops us.
Fear of failing and fear of trying because we have already decided that we will fail, we make as many excuse as we can to not go forward..
Do nothing, you are safe and hope for a miracle that will never come.
Defeat this terrible fear, understand that 90% of the things you fear will not happen and the other 10% happen to everyone.”
Excuses we make up to stop us having to put ourselves into difficult hard situations to be the successful Artists we desire to be.
We all need to quieten the negative voices in our head.
……...What we think about most of the time is what most of the time we become.
No one will give you initiative, you have to take it.
……..If you are waiting around for someone to invite to be a great Artist it will not happen. ……..Remember, “If it is to be, then it is up to me.”
No one will give you permission, you have to give yourself permission.
……...It is ok to be you, you are an individual, uniquely special, there is only one of you, so be you.
………You are your own brand, “you”….you, “you” have permission.
I know this seems very simplistic but often it very simple, we have to change.
Stop thinking negative thoughts.
Ignore the opinions of others and do what we believe is right.
Take the initiative and do it.
You don't need permission to be you.
But remember this……...Will it be hard? Of course anything worth having has a cost to it.
……...........................…..Will I get criticized? Yes, but better to be criticized for being successful than being criticized for failing, either way you get critizem.
...................................…..Will I face doubt? Yes it is normal but you will overcome it with positive self talk and positive action.
………………………….Will I have to make sacrifices to change? Of courses, change takes discipline and discipline takes self sacrifice.
Whatever you do don't become a victim of yourself, these often come from imagined fears and negative self talk..
Strengthen your positive self talk, don't have that on going argument, will I? won't I? Should I? Shouldn't I?
Kill the negative self talk and begin to fill your mind with positives self talk, positive affirmations and put those into positive actions.
Positive thoughts plus positive actions lead to success, in all areas of your life.
“Yes I understand, it is very hard to do.
Yes people may criticize you, will criticize you and may tell you that you have no talent, maybe they will laugh at you and maybe make fun of you.
Yes it is hard to go forward with that in the back of your mind.
Its called fear.
We tell ourselves best to do nothing, so then I won't fail.
We then tell ours selves that no body understands us, so that reinforces that we are alone and can do nothing.
Fear stops us.
Fear of failing and fear of trying because we have already decided that we will fail, we make as many excuse as we can to not go forward..
Do nothing, you are safe and hope for a miracle that will never come.
Defeat this terrible fear, understand that 90% of the things you fear will not happen and the other 10% happen to everyone.”
Excuses we make up to stop us having to put ourselves into difficult hard situations to be the successful Artists we desire to be.
We all need to quieten the negative voices in our head.
……...What we think about most of the time is what most of the time we become.
No one will give you initiative, you have to take it.
……..If you are waiting around for someone to invite to be a great Artist it will not happen. ……..Remember, “If it is to be, then it is up to me.”
No one will give you permission, you have to give yourself permission.
……...It is ok to be you, you are an individual, uniquely special, there is only one of you, so be you.
………You are your own brand, “you”….you, “you” have permission.
I know this seems very simplistic but often it very simple, we have to change.
Stop thinking negative thoughts.
Ignore the opinions of others and do what we believe is right.
Take the initiative and do it.
You don't need permission to be you.
But remember this……...Will it be hard? Of course anything worth having has a cost to it.
……...........................…..Will I get criticized? Yes, but better to be criticized for being successful than being criticized for failing, either way you get critizem.
...................................…..Will I face doubt? Yes it is normal but you will overcome it with positive self talk and positive action.
………………………….Will I have to make sacrifices to change? Of courses, change takes discipline and discipline takes self sacrifice.
Whatever you do don't become a victim of yourself, these often come from imagined fears and negative self talk..
Strengthen your positive self talk, don't have that on going argument, will I? won't I? Should I? Shouldn't I?
Kill the negative self talk and begin to fill your mind with positives self talk, positive affirmations and put those into positive actions.
Positive thoughts plus positive actions lead to success, in all areas of your life.
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