“Be yourself.”
My son Neil Shellshear did a great Periscope this morning and I found it very challenging subject, “be yourself.” What an interesting thought, everyone considers they are all very individual but we are all part of this giant push for us all to conform and be like everyone else and everyone does conform . For most it is very hard to break out of the box and be yourself and often those who do, go overboard and create an alter ego that then pushes people away. Being myself does not mean I have to start wearing contagious clothing or finding some way of gaining attention, because gaining attention by being outrageous is very hard to maintain in the long term. Many Artists try to be very different often for difference sake but lack the talent to back up the eccentricity. Dali was very eccentric but he had the talent and produced the work to allow his alter ego to be accepted. As Artists I want us to be ourselves, do not follow the crowd, be different, paint what you believe...