The invitation is not coming.
Nobody
will pick you until you are already famous.
Nobody
will give you permission so do not ask, just give yourself
permission.
Don’t
look for others to introduce you, be your own promoter introduce
yourself.
The
idea we are all sold is that if we wait in the wings we will be
called to the table, but if we go to the table we will be asked to
leave.
I
do not believe that what I have found is if you look like you belong
and act like you belong and are confident in yourself, you will not
be asked to leave and you will be accepted.
Because
most everyone else is not that confident even the rich and famous, so
be self-assured it will show in your body language.
The
first time may be a bit unsettling but over time the fear will calm
down and confidence will grow.
Most
Artists are held back by fear so it is always easier to take the low
seat, but that is where the crowd is and we want to stand out from
the crowd and get attention, so we need to invite ourselves forward
because no one else will.
Now
there are some who are proud and pushy and in the long run that never
works, we must be always courteous, well mannered and confident.
If
you are always on your best behavior you will win people.
Smile
and be friendly, always courteous and most people will like you and
accept you.
You
will not win them all, but you won’t make any enemies either.
Always
encourage others and praise what they do, it cost nothing to be nice.
Remove
criticism from your vocabulary, if you see something you want to
criticize, just be silent and move on, it’s not that important.
What
is important is your good name and that you win people over to your
cause, which is promoting and selling your Art.
Write
your own invitation to success.
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